Why you shouldn't allow others to tell you what you can and cannot?

Please note:

This post isn't created for making any way personal, it's a general post to show you how others might block your path in general. If you feel affected by it - then maybe, just maybe you should look into your own behaviour? If anyone after reading wishes to comment on it or wishes me to explain things I will. I am not gonna talk about specific people giving names or something - that's not the point. I do not wish to create quarrels it's just my own reflection about things I noticed around. There might be some places or behaviours forced upon you by the law, and in not talking about them. I am talking about the ones where you have free choice and you wouldn't be punished for your behaviour.

I had been on discord for so long time already... meeting many people, trying to help them and myself or being on different servers for different reasons. But most behaviours are common not only here, but also in other spheres of your life.

I am also sure that's every one of you might have at least one situation where you wanted to do something madly, like getting an idea which wouldn't get out your mind and after talking about it with somebody they went like "no, you shouldn't do it", "no, you can't do it", "it's too dangerous", "you don't know how to do it - learn more first" and so on. It could be described in any way by using different forms, but I believe you all understand the point I made. And so after hearing it, you decide from giving up on your idea, mostly because you think "hmm this person knows so much so they must be right" or "they know more than me, or do it longer so I need to learn more first".

Well, that's the biggest mistake you could do. Why?

Because you aren't them. You never know why a specific person had to have some experience. You didn't have the exact same choices in life as them. You might have other fears than them. Your work might be totally other than theirs. I shall explain it on example:

Let's take two persons. One never reincarnated and their karma is clean. Let's name them J. the one reincarnated for 20times and still couldn't deal with their life lessons about greed. Let's name then G

J has the idea to open their own company.

G did it once, but the company collapsed because they were too greedy, but they don't understand it yet. They think the company collapsed because the customers didn't want to buy their products (they were just too expensive for them) and finished with some debts after it. The general experience was very negative. So once they will talk and J talks about opening their own shop person G will want to stop them. Why? Because of their experience. Because they do care about person J. Because they are friends. But at the same time, they will reflect their fears upon another person, making them doubt themselves.

They wouldn't be able to change it, you know why? Because they never look into the mirror trying to see their faults. All of us were in this place once. Many more than once. There is no devil in the mirror..you are your own devil. I hope you understand the examples. It doesn't matter how much knowledge or experience somebody has, they are still learning and so does you. So follow your instincts and experiment on your own. See what's best for you. Don't let them block you and send their fears towards you... maybe you will be able to break free and in future will be able to help them instead? Maybe your path is other than theirs? You might have other lessons or experiences. You might do something beautiful on your own. Don't let them stop you, just because you don't know how to do something. Look about it, ask for knowledge but never allow them to stop you. If somebody will ask then why. Why do they feel this way? What do they feel? Are their fears yours or do they try to project them on you? Take your time and think about it. This they do something a long time, doesn't means they are better than you. Maybe they are. Maybe they are not and just need more time to learn? There is a need for theory in everything, but it can bring you only as far. You need practice if you want to make a change. Always question, always discuss, always ask and never let them force you. You will learn the best when you do so. Question and discussion is even the best way, not only to understand another person but also yourself and learn as much as you can improve yourself. Bring happiness.

Understand that they care, but they aren't walking on your shoes today. You are responsible for yourself and too can create what you want and how you want

You have one life and you are responsible for it. Live it to your fullest, and don't let others torment you. Trust yourself, trust your instincts - they will always guide you doesn't matter how difficult it will be, doesn't matter how stupid it feels at times.

The one thing you should always remember is that your instincts are your connection with your higher consciousness. Do what feels right for you, not for others. You aren't them and they aren't you. Do you want to live your dreams or somebody else's one?

One more word from me: as I find it also very common. If you feel like you want to work with specific spirits for example demons, and everyone tells you they are dangerous - ask yourself why they feel this way? Maybe it's the behaviour of their expectations towards the spirits, maybe it's because they don't resonate with them, maybe they had a bad experience. But again: remember: you aren't them! If you feel connected to a spirit then work with them. You want to speak with someone then do so! If you do have at least basic knowledge about the spirit, then you will be fine working with them. The spirits behave as you expect them to behave. If you feel they will be scary - they will

But if you believe they will be the best friends you could have - they will. The question is if you are willing to give them a chance or be like a sheep following orders? Do what feels good for you, this is your path and no one else will walk it for you!